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S is for Service by Conlee Ricketts #atozchallenge

4/22/2014

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A 24 hour period to be of service to anything and anyone in need is where today will take us.  Look around to see where it is you can lend a hand.  It’s true that helping others is really helping ourselves.  Whether or not I get acknowledged for providing a little extra help has become completely unnecessary.  I admit I used to want a little bit of praise for how wonderful I was to do this or that for you, but the more help I gave the less I wanted any attention.  I grew out of it I guess you could say.

It is easier than you may think to find little ways to be of service.  Picking up bits of paper as you walk the halls at work, throwing away the trash on the sidewalk you find as you make it from point A to point B.  Opening a door for someone, sweeping the sidewalk, mowing the side yard shared with a neighbor, or letting some frazzled looking person ahead of you in line.

Simple things that might impact someone else’s day are acts of service.  Exploring the extra things that need help getting finished around you might lead to exploring the larger things around you where you can lend a hand.  Finding the time within your life to take part in larger service projects like neighborhood clean up, food banks, or animal shelters can seem overwhelming because of how busy your life feels.  Finding that elusive time starts with finding the small bits of time within your current day that you can fit in some extra help.  Start small perhaps by picking up a few extra things at the store when you’re shopping and dropping them into an extra box that you keep in your pantry, closet, or under a desk and when it gets full move it to the trunk of your car and when your trunk gets full of boxes drop them all at a shelter or food bank.  Maybe look around your house and find a few belongings that sit and stare at you unused and longing to be useful to someone else.

You never have to leap into the deep end first thing if you don’t want to.  Being of service to others becomes a habit if you start small and introduce the mindset to yourself with the little things.  Remember that just because it’s a small act of service doesn’t mean it isn’t filling a giant need for someone else.



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G is for Generosity-26 Days to Practice Peace by Conlee Ricketts

4/8/2014

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Generosity of spirit is where I place my focus today. 

It’s easy for me to first associate generosity with financial generosity but because I’m working through some of my own financial setbacks I personally need to focus on as many other types of generosity that I can.

Be generous with your smiles.  In the store if I see someone who looks completely sad and defeated and I can make eye contact I will give them a smile with a hint of “been there—done that—got the t-shirt.”  If I can pull a hint of relief from their face then my generosity has been received.

Be generous with your time.  Spending a few extra moments to really listen can be one of the most generous things I do in a day. I spend my extra moments with anyone needing to share a story with me; sometimes it’s the crazy old dude in the coffee shop telling me how to live my life and sometimes it’s my neighbor with the “guy troubles.” My favorite extra time is with my daughter listening to her invent a story while we run errands or just sitting near her while she does homework. 

Be generous with your prayers.  I try to send off a positive thought when I’m feeling uneasy, annoyed, or scared.  A fire truck blasts by loud and scary and I say “I hope everyone’s okay.”  Someone drives around me dangerously cutting through traffic and I say, “I hope you arrive safely.” Whatever, whoever I come across during the day that needs some extra love I simply send off a little prayer.  My prayers aren’t a typical prayer like I learned when I was a child, but taking a moment to send a focused thought of pure goodness can’t hurt.

For today give of yourself, your heart, your smile, your time, your ears, instead of your dollars.  This form of generosity pays itself back instantaneously.  You might get to hear a fascinating story, make a new friend, or quite possibly extend some emotional relief to someone who is in desperate need.

Today say, “I will give whatever I can to whomever I can whenever I can.”



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